What Not to Try in Your Marriage: Avoiding Common Pitfalls

What Not to Try in Your Marriage: Avoiding Common Pitfalls Let’s be honest: marriage is far from the perfect picture we sometimes see on TV. It’s more like trying to cook a pot of amala—things can get messy, and you’ve got to stir carefully or risk burning the whole pot. I may not be married yet (still in the 'finding my person' phase, you know), but trust me, I’ve witnessed enough love stories to know that marriage is both sweet and challenging. It’s a lot like juggling; sometimes you're on point, and other times, you end up dropping all the balls. But that’s what makes it real. In the beginning, it’s all smiles and love letters—those moments when your partner can do no wrong. But as time passes, the reality of everyday life sets in, and suddenly, you’re having a full-blown debate about whether the fan should be on or off in the middle of the night. Marriage isn’t just about grand declarations of love; it’s about navigating the small, everyday moments that either keep th...